Everything happens for a reason

“Watch your thoughts, for they become words.
Watch your words, for they become actions.
Watch your actions, for they become habits.
Watch your habits, for they become character.
Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.”

One of my favorite quotes in Spanish is “No hay mal que por bien no venga.” The words flow a lot better in Spanish, but when translated it means that nothing bad happens unless something good is right around the corner. I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about life and what is to come. I went back and read this post I did over a year ago and realized that I have not been doing everything I need to do to become successful in life.

I have compromised who I am for the sake of everyone around me. I have so many times made decisions that are mostly selfless and thought that they would bring me happiness but they did not. For once in my life I feel like I need to care just about me and what I want to do with my life. I want to be able to say that the actions I take from today on, are based on the pursuit of my happiness and not that of what everyone around me wants or thinks.

I think that you should follow your dreams. I want to do so much in life when it comes to travel, fun, knowledge, and family. I finally have turned a corner in my life when I feel that things are going to start looking up. I can start once again thinking that unconditional love is not a pipedream but a reality.

Today at lunch I was talking to some of my co-workers, and one guy said he had never experienced unconditional love until the day he had kids. I felt really bad for the man; to grow up and not ever feel unconditional love is a pretty sad thing to me. He was very ok with it, especially since he said that you don’t miss what you don’t know exists. I have felt unconditional love from my family since the day I was born, granted not everyone is that lucky, but I think everyone should.

Maybe that is what is missing from this society, more love, more unconditional love. I guess some people might think that unconditional love does not exist, but I do believe in it because I have experienced it. I know my family loves me no matter what. I even know that some of my good friends also love me that way. I would not trade this feeling for anything, and I think I am not wrong for expecting complete unconditional love out of the relationships that matter in my life.

I guess I ended up going on a rant, but my point with this quote is a mixed message. For one I believe in destiny, but I also believe that we make destiny happen… confusing… read the quote and really think about what it ultimately says.

8 Responses to Everything happens for a reason

  1. Bravo! :)

  2. You have to take care of and love yourself, before you can do the same for others…

    *hugs*

  3. Beautiful words. :) Thanks for sharing!

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  5. yea it’s like selfless vibes just cripples you. i have done a lot of that in my life and never really gotten anywhere or respect maybe just a little good karma only

  6. I’m not sure if I’ve experienced that either. Can you love someone unconditionally and still be mean or neglectful?

  7. I think when you truly love someone, even if it is not unconditional, you are not mean or neglectful… that is the definition of loving someone in a sense, caring for them.

  8. Evolving as a person is an important step to go with that quote you provided in your blog entry.

    This is a transitional time in your life John, but you will evolve stronger and smarter. Evolving will provide you with the right woman to marry. How can I put it . . . when you evolve, you bring yourself to the next level so that the wrong person won’t even have a chance in your new life and you won’t get hurt again.

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